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NO EDUCATED MAN WOULD EXPECT HIS BRIDE TO BE A VIRGIN.”- KUSHBOO.

This was the statement which sparked off a spate of cases being filed by the advocates in TamilNadu in 2005. It was election time and the only person who stood by Kushboo was Mrs.Manirathinam (Suhasini).

I ain’t no Voltaire yet, “I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it,”

What i fail to understand is that, what has education got to do with the opinion of a man wanting to have a virgin bride or, shall we call it, “a fallen woman” bride?

Was Kushboo implying that the mark of an educated man was primarily NOT TO EXPECT a woman to be a virgin at the time of her marriage?

Or was it that, VIRGINITY should not be a consideration in an EDUCATED man’s mind?

In any case, i had gathered from the House of Windsors that at the time of the marriage of Prince Charles to Diana, something akin to a virginity test was conducted- either to rule out pregnancy or establish virginity. In any case, i cannot consider the Windsors as UNEDUCATED.

Further, in the BIBLE, it is a command given to the tribe of Levi, that when they wive they shall take VIRGINS. Further, in the Bible, one of the defenses given to the bride, when her newly wed husband deserts her, is that she and her family shall show the BLOOD STAINED bed-sheet that was supporting their first conjugal bed and thereby absolve the wife of all blame and get the price of her virginity and she shall NEVER be put  away  by her husband (Deuteronomy 22).

Be that as it may, may be those are, according to Kushboo outdated norms which should not be supported by the liberated new generation.

The Supreme Court of India has liberated Kushboo from those flippant cases which were filed for obtuse reasons.

Can she not hold a view that is patently false, utterly idiotic and totally unfounded on common sense? and furthermore propagate it? I believe she can. And she did. I do not for a minute say that her opinion was false, idiotic and not founded on common sense, but that she could even say things which are steeped in such circumstances.

VIRGINITY, is there or not there or it has been RECONSTRUCTED, is a question of FACT. If a man has the balls to demand it and get it, it is his choice. If a woman could get married without it, it is her efficiency. If it is demanded by the groom and if it were to be reconstructed and shown by the bride, so be it. These are preferences and stratagems which are shown and resorted to by the hot-headed youths.

Yet as Voltaire said, Kushboo , “I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it,”

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Comments on: "KUSHBOO & THE SC VERDICT!" (6)

  1. jonathan said:

    KUSBOO MIGHT HAVE THOUGHT THAT ALL EDUCATED MEN ARE MATURED, AND ALL MATURED MEN ARE IDIOTS AND IN SUCH A WAY, ALL EDUCATED MEN ARE IDIOTS. SHE SHOUD CLARIFY THAT HER HUSBAND IS A EDUCATED MAN? OR A MATURED MAN? OR AN IDIOT? OR SHE IS A BITCH?

    • brinda said:

      kushboo is intelligent and not a hypocrite like few of you out there..her husband is a true gentleman and matured..let me see if you will ask oyur wife if she is a virgin when you get married or you asked your wife to prove her virginty when you married her if you are married…and by the way you look like a loser a***h** for calling kushboo a bitch..

      • Hi Brinda,
        I am sorry for jonathan calling Kushboo that. Yet as a policy (which is my privilege to decide and also to change my policy at will) i do not want to edit the comments made by the readers.
        I fail, however, to understand how u arrived at that opinion that Kushboo’s “husband is a true gentleman and matured”. Is it our concern anyways?
        Also, why shud jonathan ask his wife- if he is yet to be married and whether he asked if he was already married- whether she is/was a virgin? AMUSING!!
        BTW let me tell u one thing- Kushboo is not a representative Tamil woman. She had migrated from Hyderabad, if i am right. So she should also be less articulate about issues which can spark local sentiments- especially when she doesn’t “belong” to Tamil nadu. She has to learn a lot from MGR.
        As a closing line let me tell u this- ONE CAN PRAISE WHAT ONE DOESN’T HAVE, BUT ONE CANNOT PRAISE WHAT ONE HAS SURRENDERED TO THE WRONG PERSON!! COGITO ERGO SUM- BRINDA!! LOL. THANKS BUT……..

  2. JONATHAN, i wish we had a more reasonable discussion, instead of getting vituperative!!
    I respect her right to have an opinion, but i may not respect the opinion. But getting personal is no good Jonathan. Thanks for yr comments though!!

  3. Clement jones said:

    I feel like bursting into laughter to see the way this discussion has gone. By the way guys,,,we all know that the girls whom we are going to marry are not virgins, for we have had sex with girls who were not married. Like wise our wives too must have had their own share. LIKE HUSBAND ,LIKE WIFE. There is nothing wrong in it. If a man can have the fun why not girls too?. Johanthan,, i feel pity for you guy. Do u know that ur wife is a virgin or is she going to tell u the truth. No ways,,,relax dude. Its only the trust v have. That’s all. Johnanthan has gone a a bit more in calling her a bitch. I dont understand what is there is Tamil culture. As if no tamil woman grabs husbands, had premarital sex, as if there are no abortion centers,. Tamil nadu stands 2 nd in AIDS. IF A MAN CAN HAVE PRE MARITAL SEX, A WOMAN TOO CAN HAVE. ITS HER RIGHT. NO MAN IN THIS WORLD HAS THE RIGHT TO COMMENT ON THE VIRGINITY OF A FEMALE. BUT A FEMALE CAN TALK ABOUT THAT. It high time we guys looked at our *****,,rather than bothering about a girl’s virginity. Kushboo,,, I am on ur side. I have seen many college girls having sex out of marriage. Now they are married to some other guys and have children too..Howzzzzz that. Men lick ur wounds. you want to have sex with virgins ,,but want your wife to be virgins????Funny pricks

  4. “It high time we guys looked at our *****,,rather than bothering about a girl’s virginity…..” I LIKE CLEMENT’S ADVISORY!
    iF A GUY SEEKS AFTER A VIRGIN FOR A WIFE DESPITE HIM HAVING HAD PRE-MARITAL SEX, COULD U SAY THAT HE HAD LOST HIS RIGHT TO DEMAND SOMETHING WHICH HE DOESN’T HIMSELF HAVE?
    I guess not.
    A man not having had or having hAD PREMARITAL SEX HAS HEALTH IMPLICATIONS, BUT A WOMAN HAVING HAD OR NOT HAVING HAD PREMARITAL SEX COULD MAKE A CROW OUT OF A MAN!!
    IT IS THAT DEEP SEATED FEAR WHICH PROBABLY MAKES MEN SO INSECURE!!
    cLEMENT U SEEM TO BE A WOLF IN SHEEP’S CLOTHING. YR MENTAL IDENTIFICATION IS ORIENTED IN OPPOSITION TO YR GENDER CLAIM!!!

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